June 30, 2010

Prayer of St. Ephrem the Syrian


 Lord Jesus Christ,
you have power over life and death.

You know what is uncertain and obscure,
and our thoughts and feelings
are no secret from you.

Cleanse me from my hidden faults,
for I have done evil and you have seen it.

Day by day my life draws nearer to its end.

You know how frail I am, in soul and in body.

Give me strength, Lord, in my weakness
and uphold me in my sufferings. 

Amen


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June 28, 2010

URGENT PRAYER REQUEST!!

According to this CatholicCulture.org article, "Afghan authorities have detained over 20 of the nation’s Christians after Abdul Sattar Khawasi, a deputy of the Islamic Republic of Afghanistan’s National Assembly, called for the execution of converts to Christianity".

How horrifying. Yet, we Christians should not be surprised by this. Jesus himself warned us that days such as these would come:

Jesus answered: "Watch out that no one deceives you. For many will come in my name, claiming, 'I am the Christ', and will deceive many. You will hear of wars and rumors of wars, but see to it that you are not alarmed. Such things must happen, but the end is still to come. Nation will rise against nation, and kingdom against kingdom. There will be famines and earthquakes in various places. All these are the beginning of birth pains.

"Then you will be handed over to be persecuted and put to death, and you will be hated by all nations because of me. At that time many will turn away from the faith and will betray and hate each other, and many false prophets will appear and deceive many people. Because of the increase of wickedness, the love of most will grow cold, but he who stands firm to the end will be saved. And this gospel of the kingdom will be preached in the whole world as a testimony to all nations, and then the end will come. 

Matthew 24: 4-14

How, then, should we respond? First, if you are enjoying the blessing of being able to practice the faith of your choosing in peace and free from fear, lift up your hearts in thanksgiving. Take every possible opportunity to strengthen your faith, for tomorrow things may change. And while you enjoy this freedom, lift up your heart in prayer for those who cannot:

Please pray for Christians around the world who face persecution for their faith.

Pray that all nations will allow its citizens to worship in freedom.

Pray for God's protection for those striving to be faithful to Him.

Ask our Lord to grant them - and all of us - courage to face the days ahead.

Pray for the families of those who are suffering.

And pray for our Church, that each of us who is part of the Body of Christ will be able to "stand firm to the end".


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so that this prayer effort can grow.

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"Pro-choice" rhetoric



Before I start this post, let me forewarn anyone who is “pro-choice” – you’re not going to agree with me on this one, so you may want to head elsewhere. I’m pro-life – in all circumstances – and I don’t apologize for that. I used to be pro-choice, too, and I understand your position. But I started down a quite different road after the experience I described in this post. Please read it and think about it just a bit.

At any rate…

The other day I heard a bit on the news in which they rattled on about a contraceptive that’s “effective for 5 days after unprotected sex”. Note: this is called a contraceptive. In my view, though, this product is seriously mislabeled. There’s a difference between contraceptives and abortiofacients, and we might as well call a spade a spade. For what this product does is take a newly-conceived life and kill it.

This isn’t the only instance where pro-choice is prettied up to make it palatable. Even the word choice is misleading. The only person who makes a choice here is the woman.

Which leads us to another misnomer: some folks speak of the right of the mother to make a choice. But in fact, a woman who kills her child before the baby’s birth is not a mother at all.

Want another example? Go to this website to find out where to get emergency contraception (again, effective up to 5 days after unprotected sex) in your area. Go to the Q & A section of this website to find out if you can get emergency contraception without parental consent, or if you can get it in a Catholic hospital, or whether it’s advisable to keep a stock of emergency contraceptives on hand “just in case”.

Want another example? This website eulogizes Dr. George Tiller, who had an extremely busy practice providing abortions to those who wanted them. Dr. Tiller was murdered by a man who called himself “pro-life”. (And yes, this, TOO is mislabeling. Murder is inconsistent with a pro-life stance, and a person who commits murder can't call himself "pro-life".) At any rate, the tribute to Tiller says, “It is with great sadness and respect that we join our members and his family in remembering Dr. Tiller’s life and his many contributions to women's reproductive health care.”

What’s healthy about undergoing an abortion? This is, after all, a surgical procedure. And surgery of any type is not without risk.

There are also the risks of abortion that aren’t discussed by pro-lifers. “Twenty-seven worldwide studies have independently linked induced abortion with breast cancer.” (See here). And there's the possible impact on the woman’s emotional health. But more immediately, the risks of abortion include infection, hemorrhage, perforation, early miscarriage during subsequent pregnancies, and death.

Oh. And... Hello? Death of the baby is pretty well assured, right?

And besides… isn’t this actually un-reproductive health care?

So. You want to be “pro-choice”? Fine. But please don’t use euphemisms when you’re talking to me about “choice”.

As for me? I say “Let the baby choose.”

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June 27, 2010

Start your week with a smile!

Never irritate a woman 
who knows how 
to operate a backhoe.

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June 26, 2010

Accidental laughter?


The following quotes are actual statements found on insurance forms where car drivers attempted to summarize the details of an accident in the fewest possible words.
  • A pedestrian hit me and went under my car.
  • A truck backed through my windshield into my wife's face.
  • An invisible car came out of nowhere, struck my vehicle and vanished.
  • As I approached the intersection, a stop sign suddenly appeared in place where no stop sign had ever appeared before. I was unable to stop in time to avoid the accident.
  • Coming home, I drove into the wrong house and collided with a tree I don't have.
  • I collided with a stationary truck coming the other way.
  • I had been driving my car for forty years when I fell asleep at the wheel and had an accident.
  • I had been shopping for plants all day and was on my way home. As I reached an intersection, a hedge sprang up obscuring my vision. I did not see the other car.
  • I pulled away from the side of the road, glanced at my mother-in-law, and headed for the embankment.
  • I saw a slow-moving sad-faced old gentleman as he bounced off the hood of my car.
  • I thought my window was down, but I found it was up when I put my hand through it.
  • I told the police that I was not injured, but on removing my hat, I found that I had a skull fracture.
  • I was on my way to the doctors with rear end trouble when my universal joint gave way causing me to have an accident.
  • I was sure the old fellow would never make it to the other side of the road when I hit him.
  • I was thrown from my car as it left the road. I was later found in a ditch by some stray cows.
  • I was unable to stop in time and my car crashed into the other vehicle. The driver and passengers then left immediately for a vacation with injuries.
  • In my attempt to kill a fly, I drove into a telephone pole.
  • My car was legally parked as it backed into the other vehicle.
  • The guy was all over the road, I had to swerve a number of times before I hit him.
  • The indirect cause of this accident was a little guy in a small car with a big mouth.
  • The other car collided with mine without giving warning of its intentions.
  • The pedestrian had no idea which direction to run, so I ran over him.
  • The telephone pole was approaching fast. I was attempting to swerve out of its path when it struck my front.
  • To avoid hitting the bumper of the car in front of me, I hit a pedestrian.

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June 25, 2010

A good old-fashioned food fight

According to MSNBC,  customers at a Kalamazoo fast food restaurant became angry this past weekend when their drive-through order was filled incorrectly. They responded by throwing drinks, hamburgers and fries at an employee inside the store. The store employee and his coworkers responded by hurling a drink, ketchup, and fries at the car. The inhabitants of the car responded by coming in to the restaurant, where a full-fledged brawl involving the store employees and customers broke out.

I don't remember being involved in a food fight since kindergarten (which is where they belong, by the way). Even then, it was blowing a wad of bread through a straw. I found my aim wasn't accurate (the story of my life... ask my husband), so I tried to find other ways to approach disagreement. And there are actually quite a few suggestions offered in the Bible:

Accept one another: Accept one another, then, just as Christ accepted you, in order to bring praise to God. (Rom. 15:7)
Admonish one another: Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly as you teach and admonish one another with all wisdom, and as you sing psalms, hymns and spiritual songs with gratitude in your hearts to God. (Col. 3:16)
Bear one another's burdens: Carry each other's burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ. (Gal. 6:2)
Bear with one another: Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love. (Eph. 4:2)
Build up one another: Let us therefore make every effort to do what leads to peace and to mutual edification. (Rom. 14:19)
Care for one another: ...so that there should be no division in the body, but that its parts should have equal concern for each other. (1 Cor. 12:25)
Comfort one another: Therefore encourage each other (original=comfort one another) with these words. (1 Thess. 4:18)
Confess to one another: Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous man is powerful and effective. (James 5:16)
Be devoted to one another: Be devoted to one another in brotherly love. (Rom. 12:10a)
Encourage one another: Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing. (1 Thess. 5:11)
Forgive one another: Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you. (Eph. 4:32)
Greet one another: Greet one another with a holy kiss. (Rom. 16:16)
Be honest with one another: Do not lie to each other, since you have taken off your old self with its practices . (Col. 3:9)
Honor one another: Honor one another above yourselves. (Rom. 12:10b)
Be hospitable to one another: Offer hospitality to one another without grumbling. (1 Pet. 4:9)
Be kind to one another: Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you. (Eph. 4:32)
Love one another: Let no debt remain outstanding, except the continuing debt to love one another . . . (Rom. 13:8)
Be members with one another: So in Christ we who are many form one body, and each member belongs to all the others. (Rom. 12:5)
Pray for one another: Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous man is powerful and effective. (James 5:16)
Be of the same mind with one another: May the God who gives endurance and encouragement give you a spirit of unity among yourselves as you follow Christ Jesus . . . (Rom. 15:5)
Serve one another: You, my brothers, were called to be free. But do not use your freedom to indulge the sinful nature ; rather, serve one another in love. (Gal. 5:13)
Spur one another on: And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds. (Heb. 10:24)
Submit to one another: Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ. (Eph. 5:21)

A food fight should only be used as a last resort.

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June 24, 2010

Tintin in the Congo

In 1929, Belgian author Georges Prosper Remi - better known by the pen name Hergé – began writing and illustrating a comic series which featured a man named Tintin and his Congolese sidekick Coco. Hergé continued to write about Tintin until his death in 1983. A compilation of these comics, titled Tintin in the Congo, was first published in 1930.

According to this Wikipedia article about Hergé, “The notable qualities of the Tintin stories include their vivid humanism, a realistic feel produced by meticulous and wide ranging research, and Hergé's ligne claire drawing style. Adult readers enjoy the many satirical references to the history and politics of the 20th century.”
On the other hand, according to another Wikipedia article, this one about Hergé’s work itself, “It has provoked controversy, particularly in modern times, with complaints from people who feel the depiction of Africans is racist, and from animal rights groups who feel Tintin engages in cruel behaviour. Hergé later said that he was influenced by the naïve, colonialist views of the time.



Bienvenu Mbutu, formerly of the Congo but now living in Belgium, read the Tintin comics as a boy, as did many Congolese. His mother purchased it for him. But many years later, Mbutu reread the book. And now, years later, Mbutu is offended by Hergé’s book and by the way it characterizes blacks in Congo. In fact, according to a “bit” I heard on the radio on Friday, Mbutu is bringing both civil and criminal action against the publisher of the book. He wants them to either stop publishing it or, at minimum, label it clearly as being potentially offensive.

Does the Tintin book contain offensive imagery? I don’t know – I haven’t read it. But it wouldn’t surprise me to find that a book written 80 years ago wouldn’t be considered in any way “enlightened” by today’s standards. On the other hand, Mbutu may bs surprised to see some unintended consequences arising from his court action. This Daily Mail article reports that, “The controversy prompted a 3,800 per cent sales rise, catapulting the book from 4,343rd to 5th in the Amazon bestseller chart in just four days.”

According to the previously-cited Daily Mail article, “Tintin in the Congo, the second in the classic comic-strip series, has also come under fire for depicting cruelty to animals. The hero goes game hunting and in one original scene blew up a rhinoceros with a stick of dynamite – Hergé redrew it after complaints from Scandinavia.”

But now – nearly 3 decades after his death – the author is unable to rewrite his manuscript.

Are there some tasteless characterizations in Hergé's work? Likely so. But should we ban it? Are we going too far?

How about banning Charles Dickens’ Tale of Two Cities for its violent imagery? Or banning sale of scripture? After all the Koran might offend non-Muslims, and perhaps the Bible would offend those of the Hindu faith. For that matter, many of today’s modern Christian women might find Paul’s advice on marriage to be offensive. And I'm willing to bet that Mark Twain wouldn't pass today's test for political correctness.

So once again I ask: are we going too far?

And how far should we go?

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June 23, 2010

Beautiful.

The lyrics of this song are nearly as beautiful as the music itself:

As secret as a dream you call
As silent as the night for all you cry
Lacrymosa
Lacrymosa dies illa
Dolorosa Domine Voca Voca Me
You whisper in my silent sleep
You answer to my call when lost I cry
Lacrymosa



The music is by a group called Libera - a treble choir. My thanks to Wim van Overbeke for introducing me to them.

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No, dear. You HAVEN’T heard it all.

Not by a long shot.

I’ve just learned about an exciting new job possibility – and I simply HAD to share!!! By embarking on this career – in conjunction with “using active listening skills and armed with penetrating soul searching questions”, you “can help create change in someone’s life in a matter of minutes”.

No, we’re not talking about psychiatry. And we’re not talking about pastoral counseling. This is a whole new avenue to explore in terms of your profession future! You can become a Registered Toe Reader after a mere 16 hours of training! This will enable you to offer “transformational healing through a toe reading session”.

You can’t beat that, can you! And there’s a tremendous demand for this skill. In fact, “Each year hundreds of people stand in lines for hours to get their toes read.”

If you live in a backwoods area where toe reading services aren’t available, dash on over to your radio… because “many radio stations across the country are having listeners call in and ask questions about their toes”.

Or you can go to this website to find a toe reader near you!

By the way, if you live in the U.S., there are precisely 3 (that's three) toe readers listed on that site… two in California (as you might expect) and one in Massachusetts. So clearly there is a desperate need for more practitioners of this healing art in our country. And YOU could help fill the void!

Interested?

Check this advertisement to learn more about this exciting career opportunity!

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June 22, 2010

To life!

Andrea Bocelli is an Italian artist, and the recipient of multiple awards for a wide range of music. He has shown great skill as a musician of classical, popular, and operatic genres. His albums have vold over 70 million copies across the world.

In 1998, he was named one of People Magazine’s 50 Most Beautiful People. He is well-known for his duet, The Prayer, which he sang with Celine Dion for the animated film, The Quest for Camelot. He shares a bit of his talent – and an important message – in this video:


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June 21, 2010

Food for thought...

H/T to Cindy in scenic, steamy Florida!
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Monday's smile: Blond inventions

OK, guys - here's a chance for you to show your creative side. Below you'll see a list someone sent me of "blond inventions". (NOTE - If you're a blond, I hope you have a sense of humor as well as a creative side!)

Here's the challenge: Can you come up with some more "blond inventions" to add to the list? I'll welcome your ideas, and even turn it into a contest. Entries will be accepted until the end of the month, and the winner will receive a copy of Bill Bryson's book, Notes from a Small Island.

Bryson, born and raised in the U.S., spent most of his working years in England, and loved it there. Later, he moved back to the States, and was confronted with a tremendous "culture shock", which he describes in this book. It will make you laugh!


Blondes invented . . .

1. The water-proof towel

2. Solar powered flashlight

3. Submarine screen door

4. A book on how to read

5, Inflatable dart board

6. A dictionary index

7. Ejector seat in a helicopter

8. Powdered water

9. Pedal-powered wheel chair

10. Water-proof tea bag
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June 20, 2010

Loving God


  Loving you, O God,
brings its own reward here on earth,
as well as the eternal reward of heaven.

And failure to love you,
even when we can offer a thousand excuses,
brings its own punishment.

By becoming mirrors of your love,
by wearing the mask of your likeness,
and by allowing you to make us perfect,
we can know the joy of heaven,
even while we abide here on earth. 

Amen.

- William of St. Thierry
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June 19, 2010

From the San Francisco newspaper.

No comment.

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The path to forgiveness


The urge to respond to offenses in anger can be a difficult one to squelch, but we have an example we're called to follow as Christians:
Remember that Our Lord never said a single word against those who condemned him; he did not in any way pass judgment on them; it was he who was wrongfully judged and condemned, and he remained in peace and died in peace and his only revenge was to pray for them. 
~St. Francis de Sales

In the words of the prayer that Jesus recommended, "Forgive us our sins, as we forgive those who sin against us". The implication here is that we will receive forgiveness from God in the same measure we forgive those who wrong us. This is something that can be rather frightening to consider if our first instinct is to retaliate.

But the quote from de Sales contains the secret to being able to forgive: praying for the person who did us harm. By asking God - perhaps many times a day - to bless those who've hurt us, our hearts can be transformed. God can work for us the miracle we may find it impossible to do on our own.

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June 18, 2010

Bang bang. You're dead.

Yemen, Syria, Saudi Arabia, Oman, Kuwait, Iran, Iraq, Boswana, Palestinian Authority, North Korea, Vietnam, Swaziland, Pakistan, Uganda… These are countries which, along with the United States, permit capital punishment.

Australia, Denmark, Norway, Vatican City, the United Kingdom, Greece, Sweden, Italy, Switzerland, Spain, Austria, the Phillipines… These are countries which have altogether outlawed the death penalty. (For a more complete list, check here.)

But as I look at the list, I see that a predominance of “civilized countries” that share the Judeo-Christian ideals on which our country was founded have either abolished the death penalty altogether or us it in the rarest of circumstances.

And then I read a headline which reads Utah Man Dies In A Barrage Of Bullets. And when I realize that this “barrage of bullets” was carried out not by a Mexican drug cartel but rather by men paid by the state to kill a man who could have been imprisoned for life for his crime, I have to wonder. Is this really what we want our tax dollars to pay for? We can't even argue that it costs less - see here. So why do we do this?

What about you?

What do you think?

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June 17, 2010

The Cactus Cuties

Listen to this - 5 little girls from Texas, ages 6-8, singing the national anthem.

Amazing.

I promise - if you listen, you won't soon forget it.



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The Cab Ride



I received this story through my email. I don't know who the author is, but his story means a lot.

I arrived at the address and honked the horn. After waiting a few minutes, I walked to the
door and knocked.. “Just a minute”, answered a frail, elderly voice. I could hear something being dragged across the floor.

After a long pause, the door opened. A small woman in her 90”s stood before me. She was wearing a print dress and a pillbox hat with a veil pinned on it, like somebody out of a 1940”s movie.

By her side was a small nylon suitcase. The apartment looked as if no one had lived in it for years. All the furniture was covered with sheets.There were no clocks on the walls, no knickknacks or utensils on the counters. In the corner was a cardboard box filled with photos and glassware.

“Would you carry my bag out to the car?” she said. I took the suitcase to the cab, then returned to assist the woman. She took my arm and we walked slowly toward the curb.

She kept thanking me for my kindness. “It’s nothing”, I told her.. “I just try to treat my passengers the way I would want my mother to be treated.”

“Oh, you’re such a good boy, she said. When we got in the cab, she gave me an address and then asked, “Could you drive through downtown?”

“It”s not the shortest way,” I answered quickly..

“Oh, I don’t mind,” she said. “I’m in no hurry. I’m on my way to a hospice.

I looked in the rear-view mirror. Her eyes were glistening. “I don’t have any family left,” she continued in a soft voice.. “The doctor says I don’t have very long.” I quietly reached over and shut off the meter.

“What route would you like me to take?” I asked.

For the next two hours, we drove through the city. She showed me the building where she had once worked as an elevator operator.

We drove through the neighborhood where she and her husband had lived when they were newlyweds She had me pull up in front of a furniture warehouse that had once
been a ballroom where she had gone dancing as a girl.

Sometimes she;d ask me to slow in front of a particular building or corner and would sit staring into the darkness, saying nothing.

As the first hint of sun was creasing the horizon, she suddenly said, “I’m tired. Let’s go now”.


We drove in silence to the address she had given me. It was a low building, like a small convalescent home, with a driveway that passed under a portico.

Two orderlies came out to the cab as soon as we pulled up. They were solicitous and intent, watching her every move. They must have been expecting her.

I opened the trunk and took the small suitcase to the door. The woman was already seated in a wheelchair.

“How much do I owe you?” she asked, reaching into her purse.


“Nothing,” I said

“You have to make a living,” she answered.

“There are other passengers,” I responded.

Almost without thinking, I bent and gave her a hug. She held onto me tightly.

“You gave an old woman a little moment of joy,” she said. “Thank you.”

I squeezed her hand, and then walked into the dim morning light.. Behind me, a door shut. It was the sound of the closing of a life..

I didn’t pick up any more passengers that shift. I drove aimlessly lost in thought. For the rest of that day, I could hardly talk. What if that woman had gotten an angry driver, or one who was impatient to end his shift? What if I had refused to take the run, or had honked once, then driven away?

On a quick review, I don’t think that I have done anything more important in my life.

We’re conditioned to think that our lives revolve around great moments. But great
moments often catch us unaware-beautifully wrapped in what others may consider a small one.

People may not remember exactly what you did, or what you said – but they will always remember how you made them feel.
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June 16, 2010

Dirty money?


It turns out that a professional pooper scooper from Missouri discovered the true meaning of the phrase "dirty money". For that matter, he also found the true meaning of the phrase "laundering money".

In the course of his work, he noticed money protruding from some pet poop. He decided to do his doody (sorry about the pun...) and recover the cash... $58 in all. After cleaning the bills, he placed them in a plastic bag and returned them to the owner. Although the money is slightly the worse for wear, the serial numbers can still be read, and so the owner can take them to a bank and have them replaced with cleaner cash.

I'm hoping someone will inform the bank teller about tarnished past of the filthy funds.

And I'm hoping there's a reward in there somewhere for the industrious fellow who dove right in there to deliver the goods.


I'm sure that someone more clever than I could think of a moral to the story. If you can think of one, feel free to leave a comment!
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June 15, 2010

Choosing happiness



Many of us spend time in anxious striving looking for the key to happiness. Unfortunately, we often find this goal to be an elusive one. The harder we work at it, the more discontented we become.

One of the best ways to be happy is to simply decide that there is no better time to be happy than right now, the moment we're in. Because it often seems that those who are miserable today carry their misery into tomorrow.

What better way to find happiness than to find reason for contentment no matter the situation... and to trust that a loving God has a plan whose beauty will become apparent as His plan unfolds.

The most important thing of all is to make sure of having tranquility, not because it is the mother of contentment but because it is the daughter of the love of God and of our own will's resignation. Occasions for practicing tranquility come our way every day; for we never lack contradictions, wherever we may be; and when there is no one to contradict us we inflict contrariness on ourselves.

~St. Francis de Sales
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June 14, 2010

Who'd want to be a preacher, anyway?

Did you ever wonder why someone might hesitate to go into the ministry? Perhaps this description of the characteristics required of a successful minister might help to explain it!
To put it in its simplest form, people expect their minister to be serious but not solemn; unworldly but possessed of some practical sense; wise but not smart; gentle but not effeminate; poor but not a pauper; unctuous but not pompous; neat but not natty; diligent but not ambitious; upright in his own conduct but not censurious of their; forthright but tactful; affable but reserved.
Perhaps the best single word to describe the flavor of personality one must strive to achieve is "pious." This implies that the preacher will gather up in himself a host of qualities and  characteristics and distill them into an essence which he exudes at all times, and which advertises unmistakably that here is a man who has disentangled himself from the secular, soiling concerns which obsess most men - in short, a clergyman.
Now someone is bound to say that this means a preacher, to be a success, must be religious - a contention which this book is written to deny.
Here we must pause to make a distinction between "religious" and "pious".
A genuinely religious man is, as the sociologists would say, inner-directed. he has deep and abiding convictions usually derived from his faith in God and what he believes to be God's will. Thus he is likely to b socially irresponsible, largely uninterested in the kind of impression he makes on people, often involved in unpopular causes. He tends to be a crusader, frequently intolerant of what he conceives to be injustice or evil. Unfortunately he is usually tactless, making enemies unnecessarily and thus becoming an embarrassment to the church... He is the fellow who gives rise to the suspicion that the church is socialistic and brings the whole clerical profession into disrepute. If he wants to make speeches, he ought to hire a hall and leave the care of Christian souls to better-balanced men who understand that the true minister comforts and pleases his people.
 Reverend Charles Merrill Smith, in
How To Become A Bishop Without Being Religious

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June 13, 2010

Grin or gripe?

 
 
According to this BBC article, “An Australian psychology expert who has been studying emotions has found being grumpy makes us think more clearly. In contrast to those annoying happy types, miserable people are better at decision-making and less gullible, his experiments showed. While cheerfulness fosters creativity, gloominess breeds attentiveness and careful thinking, Professor Joe Forgas told Australian Science Magazine.”

According to his research, when comparing folks in a good mood to those in a bad mood, the grumpy ones made less errors and communicated better than the happy ones. He went on to say, "Whereas positive mood seems to promote creativity, flexibility, co-operation and reliance on mental shortcuts, negative moods trigger more attentive, careful thinking, paying greater attention to the external world."

Still and all, if I have to choose between spending time with a sweety and a sourpuss, I know which option I’ll go for.
How about you?

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June 12, 2010

Learning from Lincoln

Quarrel not at all. No man resolved to make the most of himself can spare time for personal contention. Still less can he afford to take all the consequences, including the vitiating of his temper and loss of self control. Yield larger things to which you can show no more than equal right; and yield lesser ones, though clearly your own. Better give your path to a dog than be bitten by him in contesting for the right. Even killing the dog would not cure the bite.

– Abraham Lincoln

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June 11, 2010

FOOTPRINTS... A New Version




Imagine you and the Lord Jesus are walking down the road together. For much of the way, the Lord's footprints go along steadily, consistently, rarely varying the pace.

But your footprints are a disorganized stream of zigzags, starts, stops, turnarounds, circles, departures, and returns.

For much of the way, it seems to go like this, but gradually your footprints come more in line with the Lord's, soon paralleling, His consistently.

You and Jesus are walking as true friends!

This seems perfect, but then an interesting thing happens: Your footprints that once etched the sand next to Jesus' are now walking precisely in His steps.

Inside His larger footprints are your smaller ones, you and Jesus are becoming one.

This goes on for many miles, but gradually you notice another change. The footprints inside the large footprints seem to grow larger.

Eventually they disappear altogether. There is only one set of footprints.. They have become one.


This goes on for a long time, but suddenly the second set of footprints is back. This time it seems even worse! Zigzags all over the place. Stops. Starts. Gashes in the sand. A variable mess of prints.


You are amazed and shocked. Your dream ends. Now you pray: "'Lord, I understand the first scene, with zigzags and fits. I was a new Christian; I was just learning. But You walked on through the storm and helped me learn to walk with You."

"That is correct."

"And when the smaller footprints were inside of Yours, I was actually learning to walk in Your steps, following You very closely.."


"Very good.. You have understood everything so far."

"When the smaller footprints grew and filled in Yours, I suppose that I was becoming more and more like You."

"Precisely."

"So, Lord, was there a regression or something ? The footprints separated, and this time it was worse than at first."

There is a pause as the Lord answers, with a smile in His voice.

"You didn't know? It was then that we danced!"

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Click here for yet another version of the Footprints poem. This one especially "speaks to me".

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June 10, 2010

What would you like your legacy to be?

In one of the final chapters of her book "This Time Together", Carol Burnett speaks of her daughter, Carrie Hamilton, who died of lung cancer at age 38. Carol quotes Carrie as follows:
Our legacy is really the lives we touch, the inspiration we give, altering someone's plan - if only for a moment - and getting them to think, cry, laugh, argue. More than anything, we are remembered for our smiles; the ones we share with our closest and dearest, and the ones we bestow on a total stranger, who needed it RIGHT THEN, and God put you there to deliver.
This quote got me thinking. (So, Carrie, your legacy lives on...)
I began to reflect on my own legacy. Not only what I'll leave behind when I die, but the legacy I leave behind on a daily basis. 
What kind of impression do I leave behind as I travel through my days? What sort of impact do I have on those around me... those whose lives I touch (for good or for ill), and those whose lives touch mine?
And is this the legacy I want to leave behind?





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June 9, 2010

Precisely!


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Ready for forgiveness?



Yesterday, I wrote my thoughts about a teacher who insisted he felt no guilt about beating a 14-year-old student over the head with a barbell. Although he had apologized to the boy and his family, he focused blame elsewhere. From the reaction I received, I think I need to clarify the point I was trying to make.

In contrast to the teacher who was the focus of yesterday’s post, I’d like to share an excerpt from a letter written by David Powell, a Texas death row inmate scheduled to be executed on June 15 for the murder of police officer Ralph Ablanedo. In the letter, which Powell sent to the family of Officer Ablanedo last year, he said, “I am infinitely sorry that I killed Ralph Ablanedo. I shot Officer Ablanedo and I take responsibility for his death. In a few frightful seconds, I stole from you and the world the precious and irreplaceable life of a good man, and destroyed your worlds of shared love, dreams, and possibilities….There is no excuse for what I did….In thirty-one years of imprisonment, I have had much time to contemplate my sin."

Just for a moment, and for the sake of argument, let us assume that the words of yesterday's teacher and today's convicted murderer accurately reflect the state of their hearts. Which of these two men do you think is in a better position to receive the forgiveness of God?

No one would argue that murder is by far the more serious crime. But – again assuming that their words accurately convey their feelings – which of these two men is repentant?

I am not trying to judge either man by bringing up this line of thinking. Only God can judge. Only God knows the state of our hearts. And although I slip and fall regularly, I am fully aware that I am commanded NOT to judge others. (Besides, I have plenty enough sin to deal with in my own life… but that’s another story.)

My point is this: until we are willing to take responsibility for our sin and to ask forgiveness, can we expect to receive the forgiveness of God? Even a God whose mercies are boundless?

1 John 1:9 - If we confess our sins, He is faithful and righteous to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.
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June 8, 2010

It's not my fault.

This news article was published last month, but I’ve been ruminating on it since then, and finally decided I had to unload.

It concerns a 50-year-old man, a 20-year veteran teacher in England, who was “goaded” by his students during science class. Finally he snapped and lashed out at his 14-year-old tormenter, beating him over the head with a dumbbell. And according to the teacher, it wasn’t his fault.

Rather, it was the intolerable pressure the “targets-obsessed national curriculum” places on teachers. He also blames the school for allowing him to return to work too soon after he had taken off several months due to stress. As a result, he couldn’t have prevented the act and feels no guilt about it. “I love kids,” he said, “and I'm the last person who would ever want to harm a child. I didn't make a decision to hurt the boy, it just happened.”

The article goes on at some length to speak of the “ordeal” of the teacher: his flashbacks, the disruption to his family relationships, his dreadful experience in prison, etc.

Absolutely no mention is made of the extent of the boy’s injuries.

Have we become so entrenched in a victim culture that an entire news article can focus on the tragic story of a teacher who assaulted a student and skip altogether the tragic story of a student who was assaulted by a teacher?



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June 7, 2010

What's the "glue" that holds a couple together?

 
Perhaps you've heard that Al & Tipper Gore have separated after 40 years together. Not to single them out... there are a host of marriages - in and out of the public eye - that are ending in divorce or separation .In fact, according to the National Center for Health Statistics, 43% of U.S. marriages end in divorce.

That's a rather disturbing statistic, any way you look at it.
As I ruminate on statistics such as this, I puzzle over a phrase I've heard more and more over the past several years: The marriage is over.
The marriage is over.
I wonder what, precisely, that means to the people using that expression? Does it mean that the honeymoon is over... that the feeling of being in love has changed to something less sparkly and new? Does it mean that people have developed different interests which, perhaps, aren't shared by their spouse?  Does it mean that sexual attraction no longer exists? Does it mean the couple has simply grown tired of each other... or of the effort it takes to sustain a relationship?

Just for kicks, I entered "preventing divorce" in my search engine. Quite a few of the hits I got were businesses offering iron-clad guarantees that they had found the secret to preventing divorce. So there must be a market for this service.

But I wanted to ask my readers to offer their tips or suggestions about how to prevent divorce... how to keep the marriage from being "over", or what to do to rescue it when this happens.
Won't you please share your ideas?

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June 6, 2010

Some wisdom from Norman Vincent Peale

  • If you want to get somewhere, you have to know where you want to go and how to get there, then never, never, never give up. 
  • The secret of life isn't in what happens to you, but what you do with what happens to you. 
  • Help other people to cope with their problems and your own will be easier to cope with. 
  • Never use the word “impossible” seriously again – toss it in the verbal wastebasket. 
  • Self-trust is the first secret of success. So believe in and trust yourself. 
  • Stand up to your obstacles and do something about them. You will find that they haven't half the strength you think they have. 
  • Joy increases as you give it, and diminishes as you try to keep it to yourself. In giving it, you will accumulate a deposit of joy greater than you ever believed possible. 
  • How you think about a problem is more important than the problem itself-so always think positively. 
  • Go at life with abandon; give it all you've got. And life will give all it has to you. 

– Norman Vincent Peale.
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June 5, 2010

Actual advertisement. Gotta love it.


I especially love thechilly, saltade onion, and sourcrout.
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June 4, 2010

A lesson from Nancy Pelosi

According to this CNA article, Speaker of the House Nancy Pelosi has said that public policy should be aligned with Christian teaching. In a May 6 address at “A Washington Briefing for the Nation’s Catholic Community”, she said that Catholics must be prepared to answer to Jesus for their actions. But then…

Ms. Pelosi has voted in support of allowing embryonic stem cell research and expanding research to even more embryonic stem cell lines. She voted against restricting interstate transport of minors to procure an abortion. She voted against making it a crime to harm a fetus during the commission of another crime. She voted against a ban on partial birth abortion, in which the unborn child is pulled from the womb feet-first before being fatally stabbed in the back of the skull. She voted against human cloning for purposes of reproduction and medical research. She voted against providing any funding to health care providers who do not provide information about abortion. (From On The Issues.)

Speaker Pelosi said, “And that’s the great mystery of our faith. He will come again. He will come again. So, we have to make sure we’re prepared to answer in this life, or otherwise, as to how we have measured up.”

I would have trouble harmonizing that voting record with Christian teaching. To me, her apparent ability to do so shows a lack of self-awareness and insight. In my opinion, a huge blind spot is required to claim that public policies in favor of embryonic stem cell research, human cloning, partial birth abortion, and taking minors across state lines to obtain an abortion are consistent with Christian teaching.

But while I disagree strongly with the voting record of Nancy Pelosi, I also need to look closely at my own “record”. I’m absolutely certain that Ms. Pelosi isn’t the only person with a blind spot. I’m sure there are a host of instances in my own life where I, too, have a lack of insight.

Come, Holy Spirit, into my soul, and help me to know my sins, to be truly sorry for them, and to seek the Father’s forgiveness. Illuminate the darkness of my mind, warm my cold heart, and fill me with Your love and power. May I realize the wrong that I have done and the good that I have failed to do. Help me to avoid sin in the future. Amen.
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June 3, 2010

The Importance of Correct Punctuation


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Dear John:

I want a man who knows what love is all about. You are generous, kind, thoughtful. People who are not like you admit to being useless and inferior. You have ruined me for other men. I yearn for you. I have no feelings whatsoever when we're apart. I can be forever happy--will you let me be yours?

Gloria

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Dear John:

I want a man who knows what love is. All about you are generous, kind, thoughtful people, who are not like you. Admit to being useless and inferior. You have ruined me. For other men, I yearn. For you, I have no feelings whatsoever. When we're apart, I can be forever happy. Will you let me be?

Yours,

Gloria

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Blogger's note:

Today is our 38th wedding anniversary. Sometimes it's hard to imagine we've been together that long. Other times, it's impossible to remember what it was like before we knew each other. But make no mistake... no matter how you punctuate this, it's the truth:


I love you, honey.


Happy anniversary!


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June 2, 2010

Will the real Christian please stand up?

Results of a 2009 Barna Group survey of 1,871 U.S. Christians produced some surprising results.

Although 78% of self-identified Christians who were surveyed indicated that God is the “all-powerful, all-knowing Creator of the universe who rules the world today,” the remaining chose descriptions at variance with the Judeo-Christian teachings of our Old and New Testaments, i.e. “everyone is god, god refers to the realization of human potential, etc.”

More disturbing to me by far, though, is the finding that only a slim majority thought Jesus was free from sin while on earth., and that a majority of those surveyed do not believe that the Holy Spirit is a living entity. Rather, these folks felt that the Holy Spirit is “a symbol of God’s power or presence”.

If these Christians do not believe in the divinity of Jesus or the existence of the Holy Spirit, I’m at a loss to explain how 59% of those surveyed indicated that their religious faith has significantly impacted their life.

According to the survey, a clear majority of those surveyed indicated that “the most important purpose in their life is to ‘love God with all their heart, mind, strength and soul.’” But what God are they loving? Is it the God we find in Scripture, or is it distortion?

55% of those surveyed strongly agree that the Bible “is accurate in all of the principles it teaches”, but it seems a tremendous stretch for a similar majority to claim that the Holy Spirit is not a living entity. But let’s assume I’m confused about the core beliefs which MUST be held in order to be a “real Christian”.

Can you straighten me out?

What precisely must one believe in order to be considered Christian?

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June 1, 2010

In Summary: Gallup poll suggests that Americans are confused.


At least that’s my conclusion after reading this article summarizing some of the findings from Gallup’s annual “Values and Beliefs” survey conducted early in May 2010. Here are some of the conclusions:

While less than 10% of Americans surveyed think that adultery or polygamy are morally acceptable, 69% think that divorce is acceptable, and only 38% of those surveyed found sex between unmarried couples to be wrong. (Evidently monogamy is only required of married couples. Before and between marriages, having serial sexual partners is OK.)

For the first time, Gallup found that the majority of Americans think that homosexuality is morally acceptable. (I didn’t see data addressing whether homosexual relationships should be monogamous or not.)

50% of those surveyed think abortion is morally wrong. (Yet statistics complied by the according to Lawrence Finer, associate director for domestic research at the Guttmacher Institute, “The United States has one of the highest abortion rates in the developed world, with women from every socioeconomic, racial, ethnic, religious and age-group obtaining abortions.”)

77% of those surveyed think suicide is morally wrong, while 46% think assisted suicide is acceptable. (Evidently suicide is OK if you can talk someone else into doing it for you.)

The poll found some significant differences in responses between members of different political parties. For example, Democrats were twice as likely as Republicans to find abortion to be morally acceptable. Democrats were also more likely than Republicans to find embryonic stem cell research, polygamy, extramarital affairs, sexual relations between unmarried people, and homosexuality to be morally acceptable.


Forgive me for indulging in a bit of nostalgia, but I remember when the norm was one man and one woman waiting for marriage to be faithful for life to one person and to thank God for each child conceived.

I miss that time.
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